Can you please tell me at what age do payments actually stop for child maintenance? My daughter has turned 16 but is looking to go to 6th form.
(R.B, 20 April 2009)
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If you would like to read about Child Support Payments in more detail then take a look at our Child Support Guide, where the subject is covered in more detail along with a free downloadable guide and letter templates. So maybe take a look at our Child Support Guide.
Your Basic Responsibility
Every parent has the basic responsibility to provide for their child up until the age of 16, when they are legally allowed to leave school and get a job. After this age, it depends what your child chooses to do. If they continue in full-time non-advanced education (see below for information about the new school/education leaving age rules), not higher than A-level equivalent, for at least 12 hours a week, then your maintenance payments will continue until your child finishes or until they turn 20.
Law Change in 2013 - Leaving School/Education Age is Raised to 18!
In 2013 the law changed, making it compulsory for all UK children to continue in some kind of further education until the age of 18 (that is the end of the school year in which they turn 18). This is not necessarily a full time college course - it can be an apprenticeship or full time employment (over 20 hours a week) that includes some education or training.
There are certain higher education courses, such as apprenticeships, that do not count as full-time education, so it is important that you check with the CSA/CMS.
If your daughter changes her mind and decides that she wants to get a job and not continue in full-time education - which includes studying for 12 hours or more a week - then your payments would end in the September after her final school term. If they have officially come to an end, you may still want to continue supporting your child.
What if You Want to Continue Support?
At this stage it will be your choice about how much you pay and also in what way. You will no longer have to pay the money to your ex and may consider helping your child in other ways. Even after they have left school it is important to be supportive, both financially and emotionally, as they find their feet in the adult world.
Higher Education
If your child is planning on attending university then they can apply to the courts for maintenance from the non resident parent. The courts do have the power to extend child maintenance to cover the duration of higher education if the non resident parent has the ability to cover the costs.
The courts will consider the genuine needs of the child for support and even if student loans are available the court may still rule that the non resident parent must pay. For more information about this you should contact a family law solicitor, most offer free 20 minute consultations.
More About Child Maintenance Payments
Child maintenance payments are put in place to make sure that both parents are paying to support the upbringing of their child. This may be agreed privately between the parents, but more often is calculated by the Child Maintenance Service (formerly CSA). If you apply for any benefits, you may find that a claim is automatically made with CMS to obtain payment from the other parent.
The non-resident parent will have to pay an agreed percentage of their monthly income to the resident parent who is responsible for the everyday care of the child.
Joint Residency
If there is Joint Residency or the non-resident parent looks after the child for a number of days each week, then this will reduce the payments.
If the child stays over night with the non resident parent on average at least one night a week, this is classed as shared care. In this case maintenance can be reduced as long as the basic rate or reduced rate is being used. For each night the child stays with the non resident parent overnight the weekly maintenance amount is reduce by 1/7th.
Further Reading
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Can anyone help.
I pay child maintenance to my ex wife however my costs are higher than hers.
The children are with me 7 days 5 nights every 2 weeks.
This summer has been quite typical in that my ex wife and her significantly older than her boyfriend have gone away themselves twice, whilst I have taken the kids on holiday and she has done nothing with them.
She does very little with them and it is all about her and the elderly boyfriend.
Can anyone explain why I have to pay child maintenance when my costs are higher, I pay half towards school trips, am asked on the days I send Child Maintenance to then pay half towards other things, in regards to the kids lives I make up for the lack of leisure activities that are not received from their mum and I do all of the collecting/dropping off of the kids bar once every 2 weeks.
To add insult to injury as well as receiving Child Maintenance, Child Benefit her elderly boyfriend admitted to me the other week he is not on her Universal Credit claim so she will be claiming as a single Mum on that also.
Advice please.
kidscomefirst - 27-Aug-24 @ 2:10 PM
My son is 18 and has finished his college course but hasn't got a job yet so do I have to keep on paying child maintenance or does it stop when he gets a job ?
Don't have one - 25-Jun-24 @ 12:43 PM
My son is has just turned 16 but still in secondary school doing GCSE or whatever the equivalent is these days. Dont think they leave until July? Do I still have to pay until they leave school on July?
Liam - 23-Feb-24 @ 8:20 AM
Luckily for myself I never paid a cent in child support.I had agreement with the child’s mother she was in love with another guy apparently a better nicer just an all round better guy then myself (her words .)the agreement was no contract for no child support and I agreed .and gave my word I wouldn’t take her to court for visitation.(in reality I never wanted kids )so it was like a burden lifted off my shoulders I would have allowed her new men at the time to adopt the child .in reality this may sound terrible but I couldn’t stand that kid (I’m just not cut out for been father )so it was a blessing to me .once they left I felt like my true self who I’m supposed to be .I have (never wanted to know anything about the child and still don’t ).in my eyes and heart I was never a father .it was just a (stupid mistake I made when very young ).but all worked out (perfectly they got to be a proper family unit .and I was blessed with my freedom to live my life my way .(I have no regrets )so I thank the child’s mother for sticking to her word .and I’m sure they are all a happy family unit to this day .this is how adults work things out .we both hated each other and both super unhappy but we still communicate at the time and worked everything out she told me how she felt and I did the same and worked everything out without the drama off court or lawyers.I’m one off the lucky ones .
Christopher - 21-Feb-24 @ 12:36 AM
Luckily for myself I never paid a cent in child support.I had agreement with the child’s mother she was in love with another guy apparently a better nicer just an all round better guy then myself (her words .)the agreement was no contract for no child support and I agreed .and gave my word I wouldn’t take her to court for visitation.(in reality I never wanted kids )so it was like a burden lifted off my shoulders I would have allowed her new men at the time to adopt the child .in reality this may sound terrible but I couldn’t stand that kid (I’m just not cut out for been father )so it was a blessing to me .once they left I felt like my true self who I’m supposed to be .I have (never wanted to know anything about the child and still don’t ).in my eyes and heart I was never a father .it was just a (stupid mistake I made when very young ).but all worked out (perfectly they got to be a proper family unit .and I was blessed with my freedom to live my life my way .(I have no regrets )so I thank the child’s mother for sticking to her word .and I’m sure they are all a happy family unit to this day .this is how adults work things out .we both hated each other and both super unhappy but we still communicate at the time and worked everything out she told me how she felt and I did the same and worked everything out without the drama off court or lawyers.I’m one off the lucky ones .
Christopher - 20-Feb-24 @ 11:46 PM
Luckily for myself I never paid a cent in child support.I had agreement with the child’s mother she was in love with another guy apparently a better nicer just an all round better guy then myself (her words .)the agreement was no contract for no child support and I agreed .and gave my word I wouldn’t take her to court for visitation.(in reality I never wanted kids )so it was like a burden lifted off my shoulders I would have allowed her new men at the time to adopt the child .in reality this may sound terrible but I couldn’t stand that kid (I’m just not cut out for been father )so it was a blessing to me .once they left I felt like my true self who I’m supposed to be .I have (never wanted to know anything about the child and still don’t ).in my eyes and heart I was never a father .it was just a (stupid mistake I made when very young ).but all worked out (perfectly they got to be a proper family unit .and I was blessed with my freedom to live my life my way .(I have no regrets )so I thank the child’s mother for sticking to her word .and I’m sure they are all a happy family unit to this day .this is how adults work things out .we both hated each other and both super unhappy but we still communicate at the time and worked everything out she told me how she felt and I did the same and worked everything out without the drama off court or lawyers.I’m one off the lucky ones .
Christopher - 20-Feb-24 @ 11:35 PM
My 17 yr old son has been kicked out of college for non attendance. Do I still need to pay his mother maintenance as he has not enrolled in any other course since he was kicked out in November. This was over 3 months ago!Would I also have to start repaying if he enrolls in a new educational course later on ?
Andy - 18-Feb-24 @ 10:33 AM
After being pregnant at 17 by my ex who was 25 years oldwe had a mutal agreement that he give me 200 per month to cover the costs of the 1 day week nursery fees I had my daughter in for a sociallife as I don't have friends and allot of familiy... skip a year later he reduced it down. By phone call to me as he was with a new gf and she had 2 kids so dropped to 150 approx another yesr or 3 later it was then reduced to 136 per month he would pay direct debit ..... nowi never question thus or kicked up a fuss because i was told well at leasts hes paying.
so I was lucky I got summit.....
Skip to now my daughter moved in with Jim to go to collage first thing he did was go to csa didn't ask meI was going to agree the 135same as him but he refused when csa got in touch I found out he lied and said I would only see my daughter once a month I see her Friday to Sunday ..... so his claim is nill as I'm on benefit pip
Any way year and half later she hates it there wants to come back homeso iv said of course and though let's see how much csa I can get seen as thoughyour dad went to them I did a calculationbased of my daughtertelling me her dad earns 50-60k a year it was over 1k per monthI felt that can't be right he only been paying 135 for past 16 years pretty much ..
He never told me about change of Jobs and I had to stop talking to him becausehe was stalking my social media and would message me drunkat night while his wife new child and my daughter was asleep (yes I no)
So going forwards I assume I can'tdo anythingabout past money as its my nieveness and not understanding how the csa thing works and all honestly was happygetting something( I have lots of debts for all the things I boughtto provide for my daughter who got a autoimmune Condition at 12 ifeel like he is trying to get out of not paying more to me all these years and had me hudlewinked.
Mj87 - 1-Feb-24 @ 2:30 PM
My son is 17, he is working 2 days a week and not in any education, do I still need to pay maintenance for him?
PT - 30-Jan-24 @ 8:35 PM
I have triplets dob-28/12/05. When do my maintenance payments stop. This year's maintenance letter is up to november.they turn 18 in December 2023. Do I pay until. August the following year which is the end of the school year or September or all the way up to the renewal in november? Any help would be appreciated.
Jerry - 24-Nov-23 @ 12:08 PM
I have a 18and 16 year old daughter the 18 year old is at university for 3 days a week and has a job for the other two days my 16 year old daughter is still at school do I still have to pay child maintenance for them both
Jonah - 23-Nov-23 @ 2:34 PM
My son is currently 18 and I'm still paying maintenance as he is in his last year at college. To continue his college education after this year I am having to fund as he will be 19. Will I still have to pay maintenance then as his official child education would have stopped?
Hairnet - 27-Oct-23 @ 4:16 PM
Hi
My daughter is 16 and left full time education and works 20 hours a week. She is waiting to start a level 3 apprenticeship for 32 hours a week. Do I still have to pay child maintenance?
Devo - 8-Oct-23 @ 3:16 PM
My partners son is 16. was ment to be home schooled but only had schooling 2 hours a week. For the last 10 years. Anyone know at what age he can stop paying child maintenance? His wife won't let him see his kid and hasn't done for 4 years yet she's happy to take his money. I was under the impression he had to be schooled at least 12 hours a week. How can we prove he isn't
Bobby - 6-Oct-23 @ 9:03 PM
Morning,
My son has now finished college. He has started working instead of University. He turned 19 this month. My assumption was that child maintenance stopped the following month by law. I apparently have £400+ pounds of arrears to pay as I refused to continue to pay my ex wife for my daughter when she came to stay with me full time.
Does anyone know if I can stop payments?
Mart - 25-Sep-23 @ 6:46 AM
Hi I just would like some advice if anyone can help. My son left school in march this year as wanted to drop out but was suppose to leave in June. My question is what happens about maintenance since he left early and has not gone into futher education. Any answers appreciated. Thank you
Wilma - 8-Sep-23 @ 1:55 PM
Heads up stay away from me Sam (seriously), because if I see you I will shot you (dead )you will see the (Psychopath )In me then .like no game you done so many bad things to me which I will never forgive or forget .(you made me look like a f ing clown why everybody body laughed at me ).that drives me mad in the head you are the only (slapper )that got up on me and I want (revenge )that feeling will never leave me .no amount off time will ever change that .
C laurie - 2-Sep-23 @ 11:12 PM
My son is now 16 and has ADHD and goes to a special school to help him catch up. I have just found out he now gets £350 month pip and his month was getting this when he was 15 but it states child maintenance after 16 is only when there in school with no income!
WE have a private paid aggement just looking for law on his as it states if he got a job at 16 payments can stop and if he got financial aid at school it stops
The trucker dad - 2-Sep-23 @ 8:12 AM
Hi all, needing advice please husband has no contact with his son whatsoever anymore (not his choice, poisonous ex) son turned 18 a few months ago now, paid maintenance without missing any payments. How does he know when to stop? He doesn't know if he's in education or working. Nothing. He phoned CMS and they didn't know! He's happy to carry on paying if need be but doesn't want to over pay to have a game claiming it back.
Someonelikeme - 29-Aug-23 @ 5:52 AM
@deadbeat. (Chill relax )I’m glad you moved on .how’s( bree )???she grown now what she married what ?she got kids ?tell her come visit me I’m in t bar
Calm down - 25-Aug-23 @ 5:45 AM
To the one who is trying to destroy me over CMS financial issues:-
You claim to be trying to get more money fo the children, but you know that in ruining me, they will end up with far, far less than they currently get. Infact, ultimately they will end up sweet nothing from me as dead dads don't pay ! It's nothing to do with the children it's because you can't accept that I've moved on. You are a psychopath and are trying to execute me. You want this to take place publically so you can get off on it like a public hanging. I feel like doing it in front of you alone and intimately because you are a murderer and should therefore be subjected to the graphic destruction you reap. Damn you to Hell you evil rat.
Dead beat or just de - 25-Aug-23 @ 3:40 AM
One of my sons turns 20 in Sept and the younger one is going to university my understanding is that cms payments stop in sept as a result would that be correct?
Frustrateddad - 19-Aug-23 @ 3:41 AM
My daughter turns 17 in September and will start College also in September, but she also has a part time job doing 16-20 per week on a decent salary……for her age.
Do I still need to pay child maintenance?
Rich77 - 15-Aug-23 @ 4:32 PM
My son is joining the army in march, does his dad still have 2 pay maintenance till then? Our son is 16
Dee - 14-Aug-23 @ 6:43 PM
This is 2023, why do you not have a link to a “Seperated Mums” site…I know it’s shocking but not all decent hardworking mums have residency of their children…
Nicky - 21-Jul-23 @ 6:32 AM
Yeah about 20 years to late Samantha ,and for future reference I’m not her (father ).you gotexactlyWhat you wanted bit late now to bewhingeing.i thought you found new a daddy and nice daddy ha ha ha .your a loser Sam and will always be a loser .and your children will be losers as well and it’s only your fault no one else .
C laurie - 11-Jul-23 @ 4:11 AM
I have never claimed child support from my kids father he never paida penny for their up bringing.. now they both in their early 20.. but I feel I have done my children out of help from a so called father. Is it to late to do something
Hezza - 10-Jul-23 @ 11:19 PM
Have a nice life Sam ,thanks for not wanting child support.(I’m done with this game) .(and in reality like i really never want to meet bree ever or see you again) .and know you will respect (my wishes).even if I seen you or bree in the street I would turn the opposite way because yours are (dead me .)
C laurie - 16-Jun-23 @ 1:54 AM
You want to keep posting Sam go for it .but for myself I’m over this (game ).in reality I don’t want to meet( bree )I buried her the same day I buried my father all those years ago .it was a foolish mistake on me when I called you years ago .(I apologise and guarantee you will never hear from me again).
C laurie - 16-Jun-23 @ 1:01 AM
My daughter is 18 in July 2023 she is continuing with college to complete a level 3 VRQ Qualification. Do I still need to continue to pay child maintenance as I’ve seen that she dosent need to have a level 3 in her chosen career to get a job so the maintenance stops
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